The Narrow Gate
Welcome to the continuation of my blog, post-seminary. Ministry and evangelism have brought me back home to Chattanooga. I welcome your company on my journey.
The original blog, Down In Mississippi, shared stories from 2008 and 2009 of the hope and determination of people in the face of disaster wrought by the hurricanes Rita and Katrina in 2005, of work done primarily by volunteers from churches across America and with financial support of many aid agencies and private donations and the Church. My Mississippi posts really ended with the post of August 16, 2009. Much work, especially for the neediest, remained undone after the denominational church pulled out. Such is the nature of institutions. The world still needs your hands for a hand up. I commend to you my seven stories, Down in Mississippi I -VII, at the bottom of this page and the blog posts. They describe an experience of grace.
Monday, February 23, 2015
Day 805 - Faith and the Hardened Heart
A Sermon for Urban Outreach Ministry, February 23,
2015
Gospel Reading: Mark 2:23-3:6
This passage in Mark
gives us a very good idea of exactly what Jesus is about and why radical Christian
behavior is such a threat to the status quo of power and evil. He addresses the
desires to preserve the status quo of both religious and political leaders, and
the implicit evil in the hardened heart necessary to do it; but his message is a
question pointed at all of us, “Are we glorifying the Lord of All?”
What is so bad about
the status quo, you ask? The priests are concerned about the status quo. Their
job is to interpret the law. Here Mark tells us the priests get angry at Jesus
and the disciples for walking through a grain field and plucking heads of grain
and rubbing them in their palms to husk then so they can eat the grain. The act
of rubbing the grain is technically “threshing” something the tradition of
Jewish Law labels “work.” Since the Sabbath is intended as a day of rest, then
they have technically sinned according to the priests’ interpretation of the
Law.
They have some basis
for this claim based on Deuteronomy 5:12-15:
12Observe the sabbath day and keep it holy,
as the Lord your God commanded you. 13Six
days you shall labor and do all your work. 14But
the seventh day is a sabbath to the Lord your God; you shall not do any
work—you, or your son or your daughter, or your male or female slave, or your
ox or your donkey, or any of your livestock, or the resident alien in your
towns, so that your male and female slave may rest as well as you. 15Remember that you were a slave in the land of Egypt, and
the Lord your God brought you out from there with a mighty hand and an
outstretched arm; therefore the Lord your God commanded you to keep the sabbath
day.” But Jesus is about to show how they have perverted this command and
ignored its true message.
Remember we learned in
the first 20 verses of Mark that Jesus is the sign of a radical departure from
the old ways of the world, the World of Flesh to the Kingdom of God. (Remember,
Mark 1:14-15?, I’ll come back to it in a minute.) Jesus sets a clear claim and
demand of us of what I earlier called radical Christianity. Jesus is the death
knell to the old world. It is dying and we are not expected to pay stilted homage
to its institutions but to heed the call to compassion and grace that Jesus
brings to us.
What is Jesus teaching
with eating the grains of wheat in the first part of these verses? The
Pharisees call it sacrilege but Jesus recalls the experience of David when in
his flight from Saul who sought to kill him arrives at the temple with his men
hungry and tired. David asks the priest to give him what food is here, but the
priest says the only food available is the holy bread for sacrifice and ritual,
called the bread of the Presence (Only the priests can eat it).
Then Jesus makes his
fundamental claim, “The Sabbath was made for humankind, not humankind for the sabbath.”
Does that mean we can do anything we want on the sabbath since it is ours? Well
no, because Jesus makes an even greater claim, “Son
of Man is Lord even of the sabbath.”
In other words, the
Son of Man, Jesus, is the Lord of the sabbath therefore whatever you do on the
sabbath ought to glorify Him. Next Sunday, ask if your activity is glorifying
God. But hang on, there is more to it.
Jesus has made a claim
that rubs the priests the wrong way. They have always been in charge of the sabbath,
therefore, he is challenging directly their authority. But Jesus is fully consistent
with the beginning words in Mark 1:14-15: 14Now
after John was arrested, Jesus came to Galilee, proclaiming the good news of
God, 15 and saying, “The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God
has come near; repent, and believe in the good news.” Turn around for there is
a new day upon us.
This first
confrontation is really a set up for the great confrontation we read next. What
is unique about it is that the priests, Pharisees and Herodians never say a
word, but Jesus makes it clear what their inner thoughts are.
This
appears to be a confrontation that Jesus sets up intentionally. He sees a man
with a withered hand (crippled hand? If this had been the Temple, he would not
be admitted.) He uses it as an example.
Mark tells
us the Pharisees were watching, Mark 3:2 states, "They watched him to see whether he would
cure him on the sabbath, so that they might accuse him.” What does Jesus do?
He calls
this man with the withered hand to come up and stand in the center of everyone!
There is no question that Jesus is making a very big scene here.
Jesus
asked the Pharisees, “Is it lawful to do good or to do harm on the sabbath,
to save life or to kill?” But they were silent.
Why would
they not reply? What do you think?
Now Jesus
is getting angry because the question has a clear answer. Doing good and saving
a life are glorious things that honor God. Their refusal to answer means they
again are more interested in their own self-interests of “protecting the Sabbath”
than they are with the reality of grace.
It is
really the same question in new words repeated from the previous verses. We ought
to realize Mark is telling us Jesus is asking us the question.
Jesus gets
really angry when they refuse to answer. Their refusal reveals their hypocrisy
and false piety. He knows their hearts are hardened (a good pointed OT term)
and they care little or nothing for righteousness but only their own authority.
These are the people who think they are defending their religious rules and
faith.
Jesus has
called them out publically; their silence condemns them in the eyes of the
people and in the eyes of God. They love power and office over faith and duty.
Mark makes their lack of faith and conscience clear when he tells us the Pharisees
begin collaborating with the Herodians on how to destroy Jesus. (This is the
first clear message that Jesus is going to die.)
There were
three major “power groups” around Jerusalem and Judah at the time, the
Sadducees that are not mentioned here, and the Pharisees and the Herodians.
The Sadducees were the wealthy elite members of Jewish society who took it
upon themselves to maintain the purity and upkeep of the Temple. The Pharisees
were laypeople who took it on themselves to seek out and stop unrighteous
behavior and defend the Jewish faith. They were the religious fanatics, or
zealots of the day. The Herodians were Jewish political leaders who compromised
with the Roman King Herod who true Jews loathed. By gaining favor with the
Roman king they insulted and compromised Jewish nationhood, a thing at the very
heart of Jewish religious thought. It would seem impossible that Herodians
would get along with the Pharisees, the self-appointed guardians of the Jewish
faith.
I wonder
if we have some of the same examples of modern day Pharisees and Herodians
floating around now?
How many times do we
read in the paper or hear on the news of some politician who defends a
corporate economic interest that works against the welfare of the public
because the corporate interests bankroll the campaign. How many times do we
read or hear of a politician backing some political position that clearly
contravenes Christian stewardship and compassion because it panders to the
selfish interests of the voters?
We should not lose
sight of the fact that there are modern-day Pharisees and Herodians in our own
state of Tennessee - Politicians who oppose extending Medicaid benefits.
Politicians who blame persons drawing disability insurance as the reason the
Chickamauga locks are not repaired and label Christians who advocate for healthcare for the poor as "insulting and laughable." Politicians who want taxes cut regardless
of the effect of the poor and disadvantaged. We do not have to look very far to find hardened hearts.
Now, do not get me
wrong. Soon we will come to Mark 14:1-9 and hear Jesus say to us that we can
help the poor and disadvantaged anytime we want. We don’t need a government to
do it.
So the message you
should get from the confrontation with the religious leaders and Jesus over the
Sabbath is that Jesus is the Lord of the Sabbath and everything we do on the
Sabbath ought to glorify God, fulfilling both of the two greatest commandments.
We should also keep in mind that glorifying the Lord of the Sabbath is serious
business. We should also keep in mind that especially in our Reformed faith,
every time is appropriate to worship the Lord and therefore, every time is an
opportunity to shine by glorifying God in this manner. AMEN.
Monday, February 16, 2015
Day 798 - Are You Transformed?
A sermon given at Urban Outreach Ministry, February 16, 2015, Chattanooga, Tennessee
OT Reading: 2 Kings 2:1-14
NT Reading: Mark 9:2-10
OT Reading: 2 Kings 2:1-14
NT Reading: Mark 9:2-10
In the last few weeks we have spent a lot of time in
Chapter 1 of Mark. In the first 30 verses we get the entire Gospel message about Jesus. We also get the message that very few people understood who Jesus is,
only the demons and spirits he cast out, and perhaps the persons he healed. In every
case except a couple of special ones, when someone recognized and called Jesus for who he is, Jesus silenced them. This is Mark’s
divine secret.
Yet we sophisticated readers have to wonder why? At
his baptism, the sky was ripped open and a voice said, “This is my son in whom
I am well pleased.” But it seems like only Jesus heard it. We've read the other Gospels.
What is most unusual (or maybe most natural), at least to me, is that Mark relates to us that Jesus repeatedly tells the disciples who he is and they fail to understand or forget what they have been told.
Today we have jumped all the way from
Chapter 1 over all the intervening verses that show this forgetfulness to the Transfiguration in chapter 9. (Transfiguration in this sense is easy to explain, it means in the eyes of the world this experience on the mountain transforms Jesus from an ordinary man to a divine entity.)
Let’s
look at some examples. At Mark 4:35-41, Jesus and the disciples are out on a
boat and a storm blows up. Jesus calms the storm with his words and the
disciples can only ask ”Who is this guy?”
He heals the daughter of a man, a girl who is almost
certainly already dead. He only lets Peter, James and John to see him heal her.
And all they can do is stand there amazed, then Jesus tells them to tell no one what he has done. (Mark 5:21-43)
He feeds five thousand men and their wives and
children using five loaves of bread and two fish. (Mark 6:30-44)
Later when the disciples are out on the sea, Jesus
walks across to them in a storm but he disciples who didn’t understand about
the bread, are only astounded by this, not realizing who Jesus is (Mark 6:45-52).
He feeds four thousand more the same way he did
before previously and they still do not understand (Mark 8:1-21)
He heals a blind man at Bethsaida (Mark 8:22-26) telling
the blind man to tell no one.
And then on the way to the next town, in reply to the
question of Jesus, some disciples say John the Baptist, Elijah, one of the
prophets, but dear Peter says , “You are the Messiah.” Jesus orders him not to
tell anyone.
And in the next verses, Mark 8:31-38, Jesus tells the
disciples what is going to happen to him, that he will be killed and rise in 3
days, that to follow Jesus requires paying a great price.
And 6 days later, here we are on a high mountain and
suddenly Jesus is transformed into something unknown, dazzling white clothes
and he is talking to Elijah and Moses. (What do they say?)
Do Peter, James and John react in awe knowing they
are in the presence of the Lord? No, they react like “Boy this is cool stuff.
We ought to make tents for everybody, Elijah, Moses, you, us, hang out and talk, leaving Jesus
speechless, and this terrified them. There as a cloud envelops them, a
loud voice says, “This is my son, beloved, listen to him!"
What is said on the way back down the mountain?
Jesus tells them to say nothing about any of this until the Son of Man had
risen from the dead. Peter, James and John can only wonder, “What does this
rising from the dead mean?” The Kingdom of God is far from their minds. The words of 6 days earlier are forgotten. But how
can anyone go through this experience and not realize Jesus speaks the truth
that the Kingdom of God is at hand?
This is an important passage. Mark presents it to us like
an image in two mirrors. Think about it. At the beginning of Mark at his baptism
we hear this voice saying “This is my Son in whom I am well pleased.”” And
finally at the end after Jesus has died, the centurion assigned to watch Jesus
on the cross exclaims, “Truly this man was God’s son.”
Right here in the middle of this opening and closing
days before his crucifixion, the words from the beginning and end meet
together, “This is my son, beloved, listen to him!”
We are approaching the end of the church season we
call Epiphany and about to enter the season of Lent that marks the final forty days
of Jesus on earth. Epiphany means an understanding, or revelation. From verse 1
of chapter 1 to these verses we hear the message of Epiphany over and over: Jesus is the son of God who has come to bring
God’s children home to the Kingdom of God. Yet everyone in Mark’s Gospel who
hears the words fails to understand them, except the demons and evil spirits
and perhaps those who are healed. The disciples who have everything explained
to them fail to understand, or remember.
Today, do we understand? We give lip service to the
scriptures, but as the prophet Micah says, (Mic. 4:5) “For all the peoples walk each in the name of
its (own) god…”
Even those of us who have to scrape to get enough
money to survive with a roof over our heads don’t seem to really get the
message.
Don’t get me wrong, I think those who have little
have the best chance to see what that glory means.
Don’t get me wrong, there are a lot of very gracious
and kind people in the world who do their best to bring compassion to it
because they do understand the vocation Jesus calls us to.
Don’t get me wrong, everybody wishes God would just
walk up and thump them on the side of the head saying, “Wake up! This is what I
want you to do!” It would make our lives so much easier to know exactly what to
do, wouldn’t it?
But the irony of it all is the Lord has done just
that. In Micah 6:8, the Lord says, “He has
told you, O mortal, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to
do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” Jesus will
say it to us in Mark 12:28-34, when he asked in an attempt to trap him which of
the commandments is greatest of all. Jesus cites the Shema (Deut. 6:4-5), “Hear
O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is One; you shall love the Lord your God
with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with
all your strength.” “And the second is, ‘You shall love your neighbor as
yourself. There are none greater than these.” When the person who asked the
question says, “Yes, these are much more important than all the whole burnt
offerings and sacrifices.” Jesus replies, “You are not far from the kingdom of
God.”
How close to
the kingdom of God do we all walk?
AMEN
Friday, February 13, 2015
Day 794 - Understanding Poverty for Urban Ministry, Part 3
The first two posts (Parts 1 & 2) show that poverty is a complicated affair that is shaped by experience and education. It also acknowledged that two of the most valuable factors that motivate moving out of of poverty are (1) a recognition one's current condition is intolerable for survival, and (2) having positive relationships, i.e., role models. We also find that we all have a world view that is peculiar to our social station and economic status. This Part 3 explores these issues in more detail leading to the point that a person who desires to help others climb out of poverty must fully immerse oneself in the task of helping. When you do this, your life will change. You will no longer see the world the way you did before you took the leap of faith and built a solid positive relationship with someone who cries for help to change their life.
Role Models – Relationship system and dysfunction
These two phenomena, a system and dysfunction, will be very important to everything we do. We will consider a system as a group of individuals that have roles, rules, and relationships. A person is dysfunctional to the extent the person cannot get one’s needs met within a system.
None of us ever achieve all our needs, so to some degree we all exhibit some dysfunction. In fact in every system, there is a range of function and dysfunction. We can say that the extent to which a person must give up meeting one’s own needs in order to satisfy those of another is the measure of dysfunction in the relationship. One could conclude the presence of poverty in a wealthy society means that wealthy society has disfunction.
In every group, relationships are dependent, independent or interdependent. The fully functioning adult is interdependent, that is, the person relies on relationships across the social group, yet is not defined by them. Interdependency means that persons can work together as equals to achieve personal and group goals.
Role Models – Relationship system and dysfunction
These two phenomena, a system and dysfunction, will be very important to everything we do. We will consider a system as a group of individuals that have roles, rules, and relationships. A person is dysfunctional to the extent the person cannot get one’s needs met within a system.
None of us ever achieve all our needs, so to some degree we all exhibit some dysfunction. In fact in every system, there is a range of function and dysfunction. We can say that the extent to which a person must give up meeting one’s own needs in order to satisfy those of another is the measure of dysfunction in the relationship. One could conclude the presence of poverty in a wealthy society means that wealthy society has disfunction.
In every group, relationships are dependent, independent or interdependent. The fully functioning adult is interdependent, that is, the person relies on relationships across the social group, yet is not defined by them. Interdependency means that persons can work together as equals to achieve personal and group goals.
Codependency
It is important to
understand the concept of co-dependency. Co-dependency
is the state in which a person swings from being fully independent of a
relationship to being dependent on it. The relationship becomes distorted,
swinging between cognitive states of independency so fierce or intense to protect emotional
resources and dependency that it is cripples the person by sapping all emotional resources.
A classic example is the loving spouse of an alcoholic. Co-dependency can be a
powerful negative force in impoverished persons.
The opportunity for role models
Being a role model is one of the most important ideas you can get from this paper - if you want to help as an advocate. Role models defuse co-dependency and role models enhance interdependency. This means that as one matures in order to move from a situation of codependency that binds one to poverty, one must trade some of the relationships that are detrimental, at least for a while if not permanently, until a stable state is reached.
What are the needs to do this besides the availability of emotional resources of an advocate? They are stamina and emotional resources. Because our emotional memory bank tells us those older negative relationships habitually give us a “right feeling” they must be put in abeyance until we find a new “right feeling.” This is a hard and slow change that frustrates the advocate and the person.
This change may take days or years. The key is there must be a driving force that sustains stamina to suspend the old “right feelings” until the new ones take root. This is why change requires the four motivators listed earlier: the current condition is too painful to stay, there is a compelling vision or goal for change, there is a talent or skill that takes the person to a new environment, and there is a spouse or mentor/advocate who can provide emotional comfort while the other person struggles to learn new skills and knowledge.
An Exercise – Can you survive in poverty, middle class or in wealth?
Take a sheet of paper and divide it into three columns, one headed “poverty,” one headed “middle class” and one headed “wealthy.” Working with Table 1 separate each entry of Table 1 into the column of the three that you feel has the appropriate header. (Hint: There are 18 items that characterize poverty, 14 that characterize middle class, and 14 that characterize the wealthy). After you are done, you can examine Table 2 to see how well you did. (This table is discussed on pp. 37-41 of Payne’s book.)
Table 1. Can You Survive?
I support or buy the work of a particular artist.
I support or buy the work of a particular artist.
I know what to do
when I do not have money to pay bills.
I can entertain
friends with my stories and personality.
I know how to order
in a nice restaurant.
I fly my own plane or
use the company plane.
I know which stores
are more likely to carry the clothing brands my family wears.
I know how to use a
credit card, checking account, savings account and understand annuities, life,
disability and 20/80 medical, house, flood and replacement insurance policies.
I know how to live
without a checking account.
I know how to get someone
out of jail.
I repair items in my
house immediately when they break - or know a repair service and call them.
I know what problems
to look for in a used car.
My children know the
best name brands of clothing.
I can get by without
a car.
I know how to enroll
my children in the preferred private schools.
I can read a menu in
French, English and another language.
I know how to keep my
clothes from being stolen at the Laundromat.
I know how to
decorate the house for different holidays.
I know how to help my
children with homework and do not hesitate to call the school if I need more
information.
I know how to get the
best interest rate on my new car.
I know which rummage
sales have "bag sales" and when.
I talk to my children
about college.
I know who my preferred
financial advisor, legal service, designer, domestic employment service and
hairdresser are.
I know how to ensure
confidentiality and loyalty from my domestic staff.
I know how to live
without electricity and a phone.
I am on the boards of
at least two charities.
I know how to move in
half a day.
I know how to read a
corporate financial statement and analyze my own financial statements.
I have several
favorite restaurants in different countries of the world.
I know how to get a
library card.
I have at least two
residences that are staffed and maintained.
I have at least two
or three "screens" that keep people away from me whom I do not wish
to see.
I know which grocery
stores' garbage binds can be accessed for throw-away food.
I know which churches
and parts of town have the best rummage sales.
I know how to use a
knife as scissors.
I know how to get and
use food stamps or an electronic card for benefits.
I know how to host
parties that "key" people attend.
I know how to set a
table properly.
I know where the free
medical clinics are.
I know how to fight
and defend myself physically.
During the holidays I
know how to hire a private decorator to identify the appropriate themes and
items with which to decorate the house.
I know how to use
most of the tools in the garage.
I am very good at
bartering and trading.
I know the hidden
rules of the Junior League.
I know how to get my
children into little league, piano lessons, soccer, etc.
I know how to get a
gun, even if I have a police record.
I understand the
difference in principal, interest and escrow statements on my house payment.
Table 2. Answers for Table 1.
Poverty
|
Middle-class
|
Wealthy
|
1. I know which churches and parts of
town have the best rummage sales.
2. I know which rummage sales have
"bag sales" and when.
3. I know which grocery stores'
garbage binds can be accessed for throw-away food.
4. I know how to get someone out of
jail.
5. I know how to fight and defend myself physically.
6. I know how to get a gun, even if I
have a police record.
7. I know how to keep my clothes from
being stolen at the Laundromat.
8. I know what problems to look for
in a used car.
9. I know how to live without a
checking account.
10. I know how to live without
electricity and a phone.
11. I know how to use a knife as
scissors.
12. I can entertain friends with my
stories and personality.
13. I know what to do when I do not
have money to pay bills.
14. I know how to move in half a day.
15. I know how to get and use food
stamps or an electronic card for benefits.
16. I know where the free medical
clinics are.
17. I am very good at bartering and
trading.
18. I can get by without a car.
|
1. I know how to get my children into
little league, piano lessons, soccer, etc.
2. I know how to set a table
properly.
3. I know which stores are more
likely to carry the clothing brands my family wears.
4. My children know the best name
brands of clothing.
5. I know how to order in a nice
restaurant.
6. I know how to use a credit card,
checking and savings account and understand annuities, life, disability and
20/80 medical, house, floor and replacement insurance policies.
7. I talk to my children about
college.
8. I know how to get the best
interest rate on my new car.
9. I understand the difference in
principal, interest and escrow statements on my house payment.
10. I know how to help my children
with homework and do not hesitate to call the school if I need more
information.
11. I know how to decorate the house
for different holidays.
12. I know how to get a library card.
13. I know how to use most of the
tools in the garage.
14. I repair items in my house
immediately when they break - or know a repair service and call them.
|
1. I can read a menu in French,
English and another language.
2. I have several favorite
restaurants in different countries of the world.
3. During the holidays I know how to
hire a private decorator to identify the appropriate themes and items with
which to decorate the house.
4. I know who my preferred financial
advisor, legal service, designer, domestic employment service and hairdresser
are.
5. I have at least two residences
that are staffed and maintained.
6. I know how to ensure
confidentiality and loyalty from my domestic staff.
7. I have at least two or three
"screens" that keep people away from me whom I do not wish to see.
8. I fly my own or use the company
plane.
9. I know how to enroll my children
in the preferred private schools.
10. I know how to host parties that
"key" people attend.
11. I am on the boards of at least
two charities.
12. I know the hidden rules of the
Junior League.
13. I support or buy the work of a
particular artist.
14. I know how to read a corporate
financial statement and analyze my own financial statements.
|
More on hidden rules
In the Table 3 I have recreated Ruby Payne’s summary of some hidden rules of social class. You may not like words like "social class" but people are situated and emotionally and intellectually conditioned according to their experience and status.
Where do you situate yourself? Can you see that your actions in response to the conditions of your life may be radically different than those of the people we are going to work with? Can you appreciate that the way you look and act in the world is a response conditioned by your life-experience?
Furthermore, can you work with people who are situated differently, understanding that we cannot put a “value judgment” on their vision of reality. To act differently, that is to change, we must recognize and intentionally adopt new rules. We must fully appreciate how a person, even ourself, sees the world in our spiritual walk with them in a relationship to give them unequivocal emotional support as they struggle to deal with changing relationships and old ways moving to a new life.
Table 3. The hidden rules among classes.
Subject
|
Poverty
|
Middle Class
|
Wealthy
|
Possessions
|
People.
|
Things.
|
One of a kind objects, legacies,
pedigrees.
|
Money
|
To be used, spent.
|
To be managed.
|
To be conserved, invested.
|
Personality
|
For entertainment, sense of
humor highly valued.
|
For acquisition and stability,
achievement is highly valued.
|
For connections. Financial,
political and social connections are highly valued.
|
Social Emphasis
|
Emphasis is on social inclusion
of people one likes.
|
Emphasis is on self-governance
and sufficiency.
|
Emphasis is on social exclusion.
|
Food
|
Did you have enough? Quantity
important.
|
Did you like it? Quality
important.
|
Was it presented well?
Presentation important.
|
Clothing Value
|
Individual style and expression
of personality.
|
Its quality and acceptance into
norm of middle class life, label is important.
|
Its artistic sense and
expression. Designer important.
|
Time
|
Present is most important,
decision based on survival and emotion.
|
Future is most important,
decision based on future ramifications.
|
Tradition and history most
important, Decision based partly on tradition and decorum.
|
Education
|
valued, revered as abstract not
realty.
|
Crucial for climbing ladder of
success.
|
Necessary tradition for making
connections.
|
Destiny
|
Believe in fate, can do little
to mitigate chance.
|
Believe in choice, can change
future with good choices.
|
Noblesse oblige.
|
Language
|
Casual register, about survival
|
Formal register, about
negotiation.
|
Formal register, about
networking.
|
Family Structure
|
Tends to be matriarchal.
|
Tends to be patriarchal.
|
Depends on who has money.
|
World View
|
World is local setting.
|
World is national setting.
|
World is international setting.
|
Love, acceptance
|
Conditional, depends on whether
one is liked.
|
Conditional and based on
achievement.
|
Conditional and related to
social standing and connections.
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Driving Forces
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Survival, relationships,
entertainment.
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Work, achievement.
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Financial, political social
connections.
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Humor
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people and sex.
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Situations.
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Social faux pas.
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The bottom line
The primary motivation for successfully moving out of poverty for adults or students lies in positive relationships. In order to provide opportunity for personal growth in this manner an organization must find ways to establish and nurture positive personal relationships.
It will be very
difficult for the people in the organization who desire to help to acknowledge
the values/rules of the persons who are
seeking help to change without validating them. It will be difficult for
those seeking help to place trust in you. Your own rules work against your desire to help or be helped. All your rules work against helping. Only time provides change.
Your motivation to help referring to the four major criteria for change, is your decision that the situation of poverty in others is no longer acceptable for you to survive spiritually. It is your only motivation to suspend
judgment of the other and take the time to establish trust that leads to a willingness of the person to adopt your role model.
When you take that step and fully immerse yourself in helping others, your life will change. You will no longer see the world the way you did before you took the leap of faith and began building a solid positive relationship with someone who cries for help to change.
The next posts will describe an actual process implementing these ideas in Chattanooga that successfully moves people out of homelessness and impoverished existence by focusing on the difference in vocation to which the Lord calls us all, and employment that provides the wherewithal to accomplish our vocation.
The next posts will describe an actual process implementing these ideas in Chattanooga that successfully moves people out of homelessness and impoverished existence by focusing on the difference in vocation to which the Lord calls us all, and employment that provides the wherewithal to accomplish our vocation.
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